what would you do?
let's just create a hypothetical Person X and a hypothetical Person Y. the two met very briefly in person, and communicate entirely through the internet. and let's just say that last year, Person X and Person Y were tight pals on really great terms; good laughs, long conversations, etc. then one day, kinda out of the blue, Person X stops talking to Person Y. Person X no longer responds to Person Y's comments, emails etc. and communication just ceases. a month or so later, Person X kinda says sorry, they were busy. after that, all of Person X's replies to Person Y are considerably shorter than they used to be- from paragraphs to a few words each. Person Y loses hope, and doesn't contact Person X for a couple of months. then there is another attempt at interaction, and another failure. a few more months pass, and Person Y just wants to hear something, anything from Person X. Person Y just wants to know how Person X has been, and to let Person X know they still care. should Person Y even try, or will it just lead to another imminent disappointment?
this is absolutely no big deal, just feeling a little confused...
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1 comment:
oupen.
i'm going to start telling you the word verification thing every time i post, because i find them amusing.
is person X the reason why person Y would stay up really late on the internet last year?
anyway. yeah, this is one of those really annoying, tricky situations. i hate it when that happens. because i'm always the one trying to keep in touch and when they don't respond, it bothers the hell out of me. but i can never seem to stop trying to contact them, because i still care about them. but then i feel like a desperate idiot loser. but i still do it.
bottom line is, i guess, if you just want to let them know you care, go for it. just don't get your hopes up. that way, if they don't respond, then you won't be devastated and hey, then i guess they're not worth your time anyway. friends don't ignore each other. and if X does respond...then it's a happy day for everyone.
love you
and wow i realized none of that really made any sense. i'm sorry.
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